Itâs January 19th.
If youâre staring at your "2026 Goals" list and already feeling a twinge of guilt, youâre not alone.
According to Forbes Health and a 2023 Statista study, only 8% of people achieve their New Yearâs resolutions. That means by the second week of January, most have already slid back into old habits.
Why?
Because a resolution is usually just a wish with a deadline attached.
As founders, we love big, hairy, audacious goals. We write down: âDouble revenue.â âLose 20 pounds.â âStop checking email at night.â
But we rarely change the underlying machine that generates those results.
We try to bolt a Ferrari engine onto a Civic chassis and wonder why the car shakes apart by February
The Problem with âMoreâ
Resolutions are almost always additive. You want to add a workout. Add a sales strategy. Add a new product line.
But if you're already capped on capacityâtrapped in the Firefighter or Lone Wolf cycleâadding more isnât ambitious.
Itâs delusional.
As McKinseyâs 2023 report on Stress, Burnout, and the Scaling Founder shows, adding more without subtracting emotional and operational friction leads directly to founder fatigue, stalled growth, and team disengagement.
Your âItty Bitty Shitty Committeeâ loves resolutions because theyâre safe.
They let you feel productive without doing the scary work of identity shift and process reset.
The âResetâ Strategy (The Anti-Resolution)
Instead of a resolution, use this month to create a Strategic Reset.
A reset isnât about dreaming up what you want to achieve.
Itâs about being ruthlessly honest about what you need to remove.
Harvard Business Reviewâs âThe Founderâs Dilemma: Scaling Beyond Yourselfâ nails it: most leaders donât fail to grow because of external forcesâthey fail because they refuse to let go of the identity that got them here.
If you want 2026 to look different than 2025, donât build a To-Do list.
Build a Not-To-Do List.
Hereâs Your Challenge for the Week:
**1. Audit the Friction
**Where did you lose money, sleep, or key employees last year?
Donât just write âMake more money.â
Write: âStop doing $25/hr work that bleeds my profitability.â
The 2025 Founder Mental Health Index by Neurolaunch shows a direct correlation between founder overload and team turnover. The cost of not subtracting isnât just missed goalsâitâs burnout, talent loss, and another year stuck in reactive mode.
**2. Silence the Committee
**Your inner critic is whispering:
- âIf Iâm not grinding, Iâm failing.â
- âWhy am I so tired when I should have it all figured out by now?â
- âMy team is grinding. I should be too.â
- âIf I step away, everything will fall apart.â
Those are fear voices. But hereâs the truth: You canât grow a business from a place of fear. You can only grow it from clear intent.
**3. Commit to ONE ProcessâNot Ten Outcomes
**The 8% who succeed donât fixate on the finish line.
They fixate on the daily systems that get them there.
If you want to double revenue, stop obsessing over the P&L.
Commit to offloading one operational task per week until you are finally free to do the actual work of a CEO.
And remember when you are unclear, your team moves slower.
When you subtract noise, you scale leadershipânot just output.
Stop Wishing. Start Subtracting.
Resolutions are for people who hope things will get better.
Strategic resets are for founders who intend to make things better.
Give yourself permission to subtract this year.
Let go of the clients, the mindsets, and the low-impact tasks that are clogging your system.
If this landed for you, forward it to a founder whoâs drowning in âmore.â
This is the conversation they arenât havingâbut should be.
Want Help Spotting Your Friction?
Most founders know theyâre stuck.
They just canât see exactly whatâs slowing them down.
Thatâs why I created the [Growth Ceiling Audit]âa free 5-minute diagnostic that helps you locate the invisible bottlenecks holding you back.
No resolutions. No noise. Just clarity.




